I had a minor surgery yesterday and I took my time seeking a doctor for it - my whole surgical team was made up of women! I understand that some people have good experiences with male OBGYNs, surgeons, etc but I never have. I would be fine with a trans man or trans woman or nonbinary doctor, but just not a cishet man. The statistics and my personal experiences just don't support it, and it sucks. I have also had unempathetic women in medicine, but generally I have better experiences with women. I loved my surgeon!